This past week I have been enjoying the company of family
who are visiting Loreto from Canada. In
the case of my sister and brother-in-law, this is their third visit, and this
time they were accompanied by my niece, her husband and their two young boys
making their first visits here. To
accommodate this get together we rented a near-by home for the young family,
while my sister and her husband stayed in my home.
The origins of this visit began with Westjet announcing
their new direct service to Loreto from Calgary, which made the logistics much
simpler for my niece’s family to travel here from eastern Canada where they
live, and meet up with my sister in Calgary for the trip south. Which makes their trip another example of the
impact that this Westjet service is having on the numbers of Visitors we are
seeing here this spring.
It is also an example of the expanding age range of the
Visitors who have been coming here in recent years. Pre-retirement Baby Boomers were an important
demographic in the original Loreto Bay Developer’s marketing, along with those
who had already retired. But given the
travel distances and more limited air access in the early days of the Development,
younger Visitors and families with children were less common than they have
been in recent years. Presumably this
trend towards a wider age range of Visitors will continue, as it becomes easier
and less expensive to travel here, particularly as the numbers of retired
Boomers living here increases and they invite their younger adult children and
grandchildren to visit.
One of the rewards of having Visitors here is that it
creates an occasion for me to see where I am living most of the year through their
eyes – and to appreciate this place even more, as a result of that refreshed perspective. While I usually strive to live in the moment
and not take my day to day circumstances for granted, it is, I think,
inevitable that one tends to becomes somewhat “jaded” over time – even if those
circumstances include an almost ideal climate, palm trees, and a beach on the
Sea of Cortez!
But when Visitors arrive and see our Community with its
multi-colored homes, surrounded by manicured landscaping, incorporating exotic
plantings and multiple Community Courtyards with water features and secluded
places to enjoy reading a book – or just the scenery – their reaction makes it
easy to recall why I chose to live here over 10 years ago. And also to feel a growing sense of community
pride in how this place has evolved and matured during that period of time!
Simply taking my Guests on a shopping expedition to town to
stock up on groceries, and introducing them to the “hunting and gathering”
concept of provisioning, visiting several small specialty stores, while remaining
adaptable and ready to enjoy what is available - as opposed to expecting to
find everything on one’s list. And so, through this process, I too can see again
the simple activity of buying groceries here, not just as a weekly routine, but
as a unique – dare I say exotic – experience, when seen through the eyes of a
person used to the typical North American supermarket.
the nephews played a somewhat anarchistic game of over-sized checkers on the inlaid game board of the Palapa Patio near my home, supported by an appropriately enthusiastic adult cheering section. Likewise, the simple joy of running into the surf washing up onto the Beach – when you are 5 or 7 years old! Or, in the case of their parents, the restorative power of heading to bed early (Baja Midnight) and being wakened by birdsong as the sun begins to rise on another beautiful day in Loreto Bay.
Of course, it is also a treat for me to have this time with
family, when we spend most of the year thousands of kilometers apart - an
infrequent opportunity to briefly get to know children who grow up so quickly,
when it can be a long time between visits.
To be able to spend most of an evening in conversation, rather than
trying to communicate over Skype before we lose the connection, or reduce the
conversation to its relevant points in an email.
As one visit draws to an end, and the other reaches the
halfway point, I consider what memories will be left after they leave. Like a crowded dinner table for a change, with
several family conversations going on at the same time, my nephews keeping a
running total of the geckos they have sighted during their stay, these will be
among my memories of their visit. As for
my Guests, my best wish for them is that during their brief stay they too will
have gained their own appreciation for “Living Loreto”!